Monday, July 14, 2014

Forgiveness Is More Than Saying 'Sorry'

Forgiveness.

Forgiveness is a funny thing. I just starred at the word for a moment. The majority of the word ‘Forgiveness’ is ‘Forgiven’.
You give someone a status of being forgiven.

for·give
fərˈgiv/
verb
past participle: forgiven
1.    stop feeling angry or resentful toward (someone) for an offense, flaw, or mistake.

This definition is more for the one giving out the forgiveness than the one receiving it.

I forgive you for breaking my heart. I forgive you for not staying true to your word. I forgive you for letting me believe a lie. I forgive you for getting over me so quickly and without seeming remorse. I forgive you for the rejection. I forgive you for the ostracizing. I forgive you for ignoring me. I forgive you for making me feel like a piece of dirt under your shoe.
I forgive you.
I am not angry.
I am not resentful.

I was offended. It was flawed and there were mistakes.

Through the power of Christ, I forgive you.


Forgiveness.

Forgive me too.